Oubliette and OnTheWayOut,
My family has seen alot. They are the typical "where else can we go?" type of witness. Hardcore and scarred. Cynical yet trusting. I will tell you the game changer for most if not all of THEM to walk away. It is something my grandfather said about the time the elder arrangement came into play, early 70's, when the GB first started. "Our allegience is to Jehovah." THAT has always resonated with the family. So, I think that if the organization ever asks the R&F to swear an oath of loyalty to it, the majority would walk.
I know, some would say, "Well, isn't that what they are doing with the adjusted baptism question?" No, I don't believe it is. I mean an "oath" of loyalty like I think Ray Franz mentioned Schroeder had suggested in one of their meetings and it was summarily rejected by the majority.
I believe that this requirement is right around the corner. The spirit of this group (the GB) and their revisionism is a hint of what is to come. When it happens, I will be there to help them live up to what OUR family knows is right. THAT is the main reason I have stayed. Maybe an overactive sense of justice or an overactive thyroid causes me to "stand still and see the salvation of the LORD."
As for my sister, she experiences NO shunning from anyone that matters to her. Those of the family that "shun" her, "shun" just about everyone else. They are just wierd like that. I am proud of her because she chose to marry a man that has his head squarely on his shoulders and not... He has helped her to intelligently and systematically fade. I have followed that lead to a great degree, but have not severed the cord for reasons as noted above.
SOP